Cybersex chat now
It's almost midnight and the lobby of People Connection [an Internet chatroom] is bursting with people, excitement, and anticipation.
There are those reading this who might assume that Cathy was simply a loose woman, slutty, not unlike a prostitute in her mind-set. She's amazed at how brazen she's become, hopping among several "partners" in one night and indulging in virtual sex acts she had never previously imagined. Young goes on, "the best part is the morning after. Now when Leah enters the People Connection seeking quick sexual encounters, she finds herself desired by dozens of men. The detrimental effects that those six months had on me are too great to mention in detail, but I can tell you the worst of them. But worst of all, I lost respect for myself and it took a lot of time to get my life back. I was addicted to sex, fantasies, physical desire, and I didn't even know it until it was too late. Somewhere along the way I contracted Chlamydia, a serious sexually transmitted disease. Finally, she started driving to meet a couple of these guys hundreds of miles away, taking the children with her!
Soon the friendly chat turned to cybersex, and from there it escalated into phone sex.
The Internet provides this type of environment for women more than any other vehicle in history." In next month's article I will discuss the myriad of pornography's victims-those who lie in the wake of porn wreckage.
The argument can be made that females may spend even more time in the porn underworld-i.e., chatrooms, phone sex, and eventually personal encounters-than males since their world of intimacy involves the need to have more stimulation than just the visual alone to reach the fantasy of fulfillment.
We bought a new computer a few months ago, and Melinda got very interested in chatrooms.
I have been married for eleven years, and my wife, Melinda, and I have three children.
As a direct result of this interview with Cathy, together with my interaction with Willie Draughon, retired Assistant Chief of Criminal Investigations with the State Attorney General's Office, I returned to the drawing board, and revised my book to include the rising and devastating problem of female Internet porn and cybersex addiction. I began having sexual fantasies about what I saw there (sometimes involving masturbation). My life was one of sex and gratification, and all because of curiosity about porn sites.