Dating men with no money
“On a scale of one to 10, them being financially responsible and in a sound position would be an 8,” he says.
Credit Score (“where good credit scores are sexy”) asks members to provide credit scores for potential sweethearts.When trying to mate, while men are willing to invest in flashier goods, women will spend to signal generosity.“I could be a very wealthy guy who has certainly saved a lot of money; but I engage in sexual signaling by the conspicuous consumption acts that I display, such as the Rolex that I wear.But for most of the women in the world, it just means finding someone who will make sure their children have food and has some form of stability…It’s not having the stress of being with someone who has limited means.” Gloria Mac Donald, founder of Perfect Partners, a matchmaking service based in Ontario, asks all of their clients if income is important.“Over 95% of women said ‘yes’ and over 90% of men didn’t care,” she says. Adshade suggests that the select men who use match-making services are often more financially secure and she believes that most men care greatly about their partners’ finances.“Your spending habits can signal broader traits about the person,” says Scott Rick, assistant professor of marketing at the University of Michigan who studies relationships between spenders and savers.
If you show people a photo of a physically fit model and ask whether he is a saver or a spender, they would say he’s a saver.
He makes $60,000 a year and expects to be debt free in about a year and a half.
He’s also on the lookout for a fiscally stable mate.
If they don’t think they have to pay back what they borrowed, what does that say down the road for their relationship; if they always put the here and now before the there and then, what does that say for your relationship long-term?
” Matchmaking services and financial experts both stress financial compatibility — with reason given how money problems can destroy relationships.
He enjoys his government job, loves playing sports, going hiking and spending time with his German Shepherd. Should someone’s financial stability be a deal breaker?