Forums on internet dating
at least when u do meet you can get into the real deal..beats batting off to a web cam dont ya think ?LOLMany dating sites are integrating cams anyway so you can get the best of both worlds im more of a pub guy than a nightclub guy...
However, I'm sure that if we'd seen each other in a bar, neither of us would have given each other a second glance.but then you'll get messages saying words to the effect of "single lady 32 wants to chat to you, pay $xx to join our gold membership to get in touch.." Once you've done that you'll often find that 'single lady 32' doesn't even exist.However, there ARE countless instances of people having success on them as well and for someone who is naturally shy and awkward in a real life situations, this CAN work and be a good way to get to know someone.I've met all the Internode Game admins in SA, and a few interstate.I consider them more interesting and I get along with them better than the people I went to high school with and the people I've met in nightclubs.I'm unsure if anything serious will ever come out of this though considering most of these men live too far away and are probably not down with a long-distance relationship. It appears to me that a lot of the people on this site simply have great difficulties in meeting people and/or maintaining relationships.
In other words, a lot of the people on these sites have big problems that they need to fix before they should even be dating.
The beauty of the online scene is that you can get to know the PERSON first without any of the awkward physical or self conscious things holding you back.
Just don't ring them all, and then ring up your telephone company when you get the bill and deny that you rang up those numbers. AUAND A COUPLE OTHERSWHAT THE UPLATE GAME SHOW AND YOU WILL GET HEAPS a dating site, however it does have the same purpose, find people you're interested in, add them as a friend, start talking, post blogs, pics and other stuff up.
For all they know they could be missing out on someone who could be someone they are looking for.
Over the net you talk to people and get to know them as a person and not as some random in a nightclub who's cracking onto you in hope of getting a one night stand.
What i see is that a lot of people who are involved in online dating disgard this notion and figure that the attraction will build, but unless both parties involved are realllly focus orientated (want kids, want rich guy etc.) it's no guarantee for succes.