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There are several reasons I’m for short first emails.With online dating, the first message can make or break your chances of a successful first date.
So better to listen to your gut and break any “rules” (such as keeping the email short) when you think it would work to your favor.If you read my online dating guide you’ll know that my first 6 months or so I had very little success.However, during this “bad” phase of my dating life e Harmony was the service where I was having some success (even if limited).For this discussion refers to your first message in online dating.This will include whatever method the service you are using allows you to write a message to another member.I would write overly long and, in my head, witty emails that very rarely received responses. My rule here is very simple: keep your first email very short.
Once, I wrote no less than two pages based on a girl’s heading to her profile. I thought I was making conversation but all I was making was a girl scared. Give anything longer than three sentences a good, hard look before sending.
It is also worth noting that most often discuss this from the point of view of a man contacting a woman, since that was my experience, but my hope is that the thoughts here are helpful to anyone.
This discussion is primarily for sites such as where you write the online dating first message yourself (see more on how works if you’re not familiar with what I’m referring to).
We are wives, mothers, co-authors, dating coaches, and have been best friends for the last 30 years.
We came up with the idea for a self-help dating book called The Rules after many, many dinners with single girlfriends at the now-defunct Sung Chu Mein, a Chinese restaurant on the Upper East Side in New York City—it was sort of like Sex and the City, but before Sex and the City!
This advice may still be helpful for sites such as e Harmony or Chemistry.com, however these services guide the communication and there is less “emailing” early on.