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Chinese men actually get the same stereotype when people think of them as husbands. First of all, not all Black women are bossy and dominating.So, they are totally surprised when they see that a Black woman has married a Chinese man. Sometimes we are put in situations where we need to take the lead and be the man and the woman.
The pressure they give him is bad enough without the pressure of you also.They are not the candlelight, strawberries with chocolate.. I think personally that White men are better at that kind of thing overall.But Asian men do have their own way of being romantic. Most traditional men that are fairly young, have not had a lot of experience with having sex.I cannot speak for every Asian man out there, because as you know all men are different and there is always that special guy that isn’t the norm.But from my experiences and conversations here in China and in my life of dating different kinds of Asian men; I can tell you with most traditional Asian men are looking for or NOT looking for in a woman.If your alone with your man, you can also be your strong and independent self. His mother or father will call him every day, want him to come to see them often and even have to drop everything to take care of what ever they might need at that time.
He is often torn between what the family needs and what you need. He will never choose you over family and you should never expect him to.
We, Black women just need to do it more often than not.
If most of us had a choice, we would give up the role of head of the family and prefer to be the “wife.” When you marry a Asian man, you can rest assured that he will take the role of the head of the family.
In these cases, we can play the part of a strong, independent, and sometimes dominating woman.
But from my experiences and my point of view, most women do that, not just Black women when the need calls for it.
Ladies, to continue my month on love and dating I want to approach the subject of attracting your Asian man or any man for that matter.